Thursday, June 16, 2011

My boy is a little manic these days. Most days he cracks us up continually, dancing and playing air guitar, singing songs (specialties include "A, D, A, D," which is the ABCs and "viiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiccccccccccccccceeeeeeee," which is Edelweiss), getting into mischief, you know, the usual. But the tantrums have started, so help me, they have begun...Today, there were two. The first was a bath tantrum that occurred when I turned off the water in response to Jude dumping it by the cupful OUT of the bathtub and onto the floor. He didn't like that. Histrionics ensued, culminating in his throwing up (also by the cupful) from being so worked up. Eggs a second time, not as nice..... Tantrum lasted about an hour.

Tantrum #2 occurred just before his nap. He'd gotten his little hands on half a piece of gum and I asked him to take it out for his nap. He said, "Nope," and kept chomping. Eventually, after asking nicely many a time, I pried his little sassy mouth open and took it out. He heaved and cried for over an hour, inconsolable, mumbling, wailing "gum...gum....gum" incessantly. He'd shout at me if I tried to cuddle, talk or sing to him. After he finally calmed down and I put him down, I had to put myself in time out.

But, luckily, he woke up happy and reminded me how delightful he can be. Any brilliant coping strategies for these nerve-pummeling moments, people?

A few recent antics....
Jude got into my make-up and applied it just like I do. He looks better aux naturale, methinks.
After putting on his jammies the other night he ran around the house like a banshee pulling his pants up over his belly. This one has some serious fashion sense...
Unfortunately, he got a hold of my sun glasses. Fortunately, he knows how to work it...

7 comments:

Emily Love said...

I have an aunt and uncle that have some rotten kids. haha. Sometimes they spray their kids in the face with a squirt bottle.. other times, when it's real serious, they throw their kids in a cold shower. Please don't call CPS.

Michael and Stephanie said...

Liam has started the tantrum stage early and even bangs his head when he's angry. My pediatrician says the best thing to do is to completely ignore them until they calm down. His tantrums haven't disappeared but they sure have gotten shorter. Good Luck.

Carrie said...

I wish I had coping strategies. I'm still working on that with Eli. Sometimes I get SO mad that I put myself in "time out" and basically lock myself in my room until I'm calm enough to deal with the situation effectively. Usually by the time I'm calm, Eli has worked himself into a tizzy because he can't get into my room and then when I open the door he's just happy to see me and I'm a little more calm. Good luck and I hope he's not as tantrum prone as Eli.

David and Melanie said...

We have a few different ideas. If Max is flinging his body around in anger I lay him on the floor and walk away and he'll lay there and writhe around and finally calm down and come to me for comfort. If Lily is freaking out she gets sent to her room where she is allowed to freely cry. (we're working on controlling our emotions.)many times she gets in control before even hitting the stairs. of course I always try to cuddle and console first, but they'll chill out when they realize its not working on you. Hope this helps. He's sure adorable!

Michael Stanfill said...

Holy moly where did your child get that look from?

dannii said...

gunnar screamed fr four hours on the plane ride here - not fun since it was also the middle of the night. ergh. hey, we're in utah btw and i want to see you. we may be down in the provo this thursday or next monday or the pie on friday eve. let's talk. i'll email :) -- p.s. tantrums = no fun. i', taking tips too.

Elise said...

Mommy time out is the best.

My kids throw tantrums a lot. So, obviously, I have not succeeded at this yet. but. I just carry Claire to her room and tell her she can come out if she's happy.

He's so adorable.